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I usually spice things up in the bedroom by giving him sexy massages..i am a licensed cosmetologist so i learned a few massage techniques in school. He loves it when he is gettin his head or back massaged, it usually puts him in a relaxed mood for me to touch everywhere i want to massage him lol so getting him all excited is easier when ur relaxed!!!!
username: BAMFMrsB
we keep our sex life a priority by not being afraid of where we are! The bed is not the only place for sex. If its a stable surface, we've proabably had sex on it. All seating surfaces, in the kitchen, the bathroom, staircases, showers, on furniture, on the floor. We're not picky!
Call me Kat =^..^=
Dear Nest Sex Gods:
Its Derniermot here.
My Husband hasn't fvcked me since early April 2010. Ishityounot.
Maybe sending us to St.Lucia for a sexathon would make things better.
Amen.
we keep it spicy with having sex in different areas of the house when he least expects it! The bathroom the couch the kitchen the bedroom floor our balcony. We love knowing there is a possiblity of getting caught and get a thrill out of it! Talking dirty and sexy always get's us going with different positions too!
Since we work different shifts throughout the week, we miss each other so much by the weekend that it's practically impossible to keep our hand off each other. We take showers together and have Saturday night date night. We also recently decided that now we are going to TTC and new moves on the bathroom sink, kitchen table etc.... are all definitely even more exciting to try!!
Since we work different shift throughout the week, we miss each other so much by the weekend that it's practically impossible to keep our hand off each other. We take showers together and have Saturday night date night. We also recently decided that now we are going to TTC and new moves on the bathroom sink, kitchen table etc.... are all definitely even more exciting to try!!
my goal is to have sex at least once a week because with little kids, it just doesn't happen much any more
Furbabies Ribby, JJ, Bella, Hunter
Sex, like good soup, needs proper spicing.
Like cake, while good, is improved by icing:
So dress it up with toys and games, high heels, and panties, lingerie.
Spice it with talk dirty or sweet,
Massage his back and he your feet.
At times role-play, spend time on foreplay
And never underestimate the element of surprise.
Make sure there is kissing in between romps
And romantic gazes into one another's eyes.
The best thing you two can do
To keep things hot as opposed to cool
Is to schedule time together -
In fair, or foul, or tired weather.
Stick to it, do it,
Maybe even everyday,
And be sure to test out new, creative ways.
We like to role play. Usually she'll be the naughty nurse to help me in the hospital or the schoolteacher ready to give me some "extra credit" if you know what I mean. That always keeps the sex really great and always constant!!
When we took our vows, we made the promise to love each other for the rest of our lives. Knowing that throughout the years we will each change and grow in different ways, we have endeavored to stay connected and to not let our independent lives pull us away from each other. At the beginning of each day we shower together: we embrace, kiss, and share the morning together as the water warms our bodies, and love fills our hearts. Yet throughout the day various things try to pull us away from one another: we?ve got individual stresses: money, work, and other relationships we have to focus on. So in the evening, we retreat to a bubble bath. Once we dip into the water, it is just my husband and myself, without individual burdens and troubles. Our world is finally whole again, and love is all that matters. Thank goodness the bedroom isn?t far away!Once we?ve re-focused on each other, having sex is not only what we desire, but it is what we need to not loose each other in a world that would slowly tear us apart.
We remember that sex is both the glue and the salve of our relationship. It is the glue because it is the sole intimacy we share only with one another. It is the salve because it soothes and mollifies all the petty concerns and stresses of our day. But don't be fooled -- glue and salve aren't dull. Instead, we tease each other mercilessly with sexy texts, emails, morning peeks, bathtime "oops I forgot a towel" escapades, and "quick, the kids aren't looking" passionate kisses. It all adds up to red hot sex by the end of a day or two.
Once a week after putting the baby to bed, I go straight into the bedroom, light some candles, break out the toys and put on something sexy, walk downstairs and lead him to bed
The tv in our bedroom has a dvd player, but no satellite service. When we can?t sleep or have trouble falling asleep, we turn each other on instead of the tv. (I?ll take hot sex over old reruns any day!)
I've got more issues than a magazine
We love to send text messages to each other during the day. It really makes the anticipation almost unbearable. Showers together, massages, role playing, dressup. We make time for each other. Whether that means just some old fashioned making out or going out just the two of us or staying in bed all morning. It's about us and nothing else.
Generally we send each other sexy messages throughout the day to keep things lively, and to make us both anticipate being home that much sooner!
My favorite thing that we do is "game night" - we will take a board game or video game that we already have, and turn it into an adult version. Most recently we used Mario Kart, and didn't make it past three races! It's so much fun re-inventing a game that we both enjoy, and making it more memorable in such a sexy way!
We set aside 2 days per month for date night. He plans one & I plan the other - everything from dinner and a movie, a club for dancing, or lunch and the art museum. One of his favorite things is when I start taking my clothes off in the car on the way home. These nights almost always end with us feeling more connected & having sex either at home or in a hotel.
With 3 kids, it is almost impossible to be intimate at home without being interrupted. We take advantage of the fact that none of the kids get up early during school days. We wake up early a few mornings each week and have a "quickie".
We also both make sure that we do other things that we find relaxing. Being relaxed allows us to both focus on all the good things in our lives and leads to greater intimacy and connection between us. This leads to us both being more attentive to each others needs - sexually and otherwise.
~Suze