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To keep our sex life hot and heavy we like to try new things constantly. Whether it is a new toy, a new "sexy" movie or a new position we are always willing to try. This tends to keep the monotony out and it always keeps us on our toes. We also like to sneak home on lunches when the other person is home and have some fun in the middle of the day, it's a great relaxer and makes you want it all the more when you get home after work. Of course I would say to never stop courting your spouse, always make sure they know you are still attracted to them, whether it is with words, or physical actions.
username:lonelytylenol
To keep our sex life hot and heavy we like to try new things constantly. Whether it is a new toy, a new "sexy" movie or a new position we are always willing to try. This tends to keep the monotony out and it always keeps us on our toes. We also like to sneak home on lunches when the other person is home and have some fun in the middle of the day, it's a great relaxer and makes you want it all the more when you get home after work. Of course I would say to never stop courting your spouse, always make sure they know you are still attracted to them, whether it is with words, or physical actions.
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We do sexy things even when we know we won?t actually be having sex right then.
My husband works full time and is in school at night, so we don?t exactly have a lot of free time and often doing the deed gets pushed to the side. However, that doesn?t stop us from doing sexy things ? a deep kiss, a massage before bed, jumping into the shower together, etc ? nearly every day. Keeping that passion simmering, even when sex gets put on the back burner, makes it so much easier to bring it up to a full boil when we get the chance!
I had scheduled to do some boudoir photos with a photographer about a month after our wedding. Well, my best friend's brother passed away the same day leading me to cancel my session...etc.
Every now and then the photographer posts boudoir photos on facebook of a few models or women who are willing to have her advertise. It happens so rare, that I casually show my husband the pics and talk about how I had planned to do this for him. Haha, works every time
But we always hug alot and we end flirting with each other.
Since my husband and I will be celebrating 15 years of marriage (with 4 kids!) this next year... we have LOTS of ideas on how to keep it steamy (and we REALLY need a vacation). There are a lot of different things you can do physically to keep things hot and heavy over time. But one of my favorites is so silly (and not physical) so it makes it fun as well. My husband and I love to pretend that we just met - like we are having a one night stand. This is so fun both before and after sex. It really gets us in the mood. We get our mindset so that you remember those feelings of just meeting someone you are attacted to. Touching them in a suggestive way but not overly forward. Making the newness drag out rather than just getting down to business. Then when it is over one of us will say "That was great, but I have to get up early, so just grab your stuff and go." or the next morning we will say "Oh, you are still here?" And that gives us a good laugh too!!
Sleep naked! Every night!
Something about just laying next to each other- skin to skin is exhillerating.
Sometimes I will be so tired that I just pass right out, but then at some point, I will feel his hands starting to get a little frisky and before you know it, we are rolling around a giggling between the sheets.
Sometimes he is the first one asleep and it's my turn to try to wake him up in a *fun* way.
Either way, just sleeping naked next to each other always seems to keep us close and keep our bedroom life exciting.
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I think it is way too easy to just start wearing sweats and no make up everyday since I am a busy student/nanny. So when I am wanting to turn up the heat, I turn up the effort- shaving my legs, push up bra, girl-it-up a bit. But really, this is all just for me.
If I want hubby to be in the mood- my favorite thing to do is to just bluntly say "let's have sex". It catches him off-guard and is so out of character, it is intriguing to him.
Every once in awhile we will re-create our first date. We'll meet someplace and act like strangers. He'll usually come up to me with some cheezy pickup line and we'll spend the night flirting with each other and getting to know one another (again).
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My husband works nights and I work all day, so during the week our time together is very limited but that doesn't stop us from jumping eachother every now and then. I always come home for lunch and my hubby is home sleeping so I like to wake him up for a little "afternoon delight" if you will. Plus he always tells me it's a huge fantasy of his.
On the weekends we do like to spice it up so we get in the car and drive around and look for a dark corner somewhere and go at it like a bunch of teenagers! Spontaneity really helps here. =]
I'll tell you what... they say that your sense of smell is faster than your sense of pain... so smell is a fabulous way to send a message!
I was going through my perfumes and body sprays a while back and I found the perfume that I wore when my husband and I first started dating. I wore it again one night when my husband and I were filling in for our friends on a bowling league and all night my husband could NOT stay away from me. He kept smelling my neck and whispering in my ear that I smelled delicious. As soon as we got home, it was just like in the movies... there was a trail of clothes all the way to the bedroom. Now, we experiment with different scented candles, lotions, perfumes, colognes, and even foods (because they have a scent as well) to create different moods and every time it's a new experience!
Every week I'm someone different,,, he tells me okay I'm going out I'll be home by 2am. He's dressed up looking important,,, you know like a business man, buisness suit, shirt, tie dress shoes, glasses... I kiss him on his cheeck and he heads out the door,,, at that time I get all sexy up with the 8in heels, skirt/dress/shorts, (anything to show off the legs) and a wig(different ones each time) I then head to the spot (bar, club, stripclub, eatery,,, whatever) after talking to other guys at the place getting a few drinks, he then walks over asks me my name (I make up different ones each time) and that when it starts,,, the whole "you gotta man stuff" the "ever had a one nightstand" i replie "no,,, not my style" after a few more drinks a dance or two me being as hot as I am other guys wanna holla so they do,,, but he's there watching as I flirt with other men,,, he sends over drinks to me and the other guy to get my attention,,, I tell the other guy I gotta go,,, I walk over to the dressed up business man and tell him at the end of the night "so how about that one nighter?' He rejects the different me, then heads home,,, The real me heads home taking everything off showering to get the smoke off me,,, get in bed and then here walks in "Reece" to give me the "GOODS"
As highschool sweethearts, we've been going at it for a while and yet it never gets old! We have a lot of tricks up our sleeve. Sometimes we try to recreate previous steamy bedroom sessions or I'll attempt to make him breakfast on the weekends in a sexy outfit (we usually can't wait and breakfast has to wait until later).
My favorite idea is one that we save for nights we are getting bored, once in blue moon we will visit a lingerie store together, he'll pick out his 3 favorite things, then I'll send him out of them store and buy one outfit. Later, when we are out for dinner or a movie I know he constantly is wondering about which set I have on underneath my clothes and he can't wait to get me home!
Between being 8 months pregnant and chasing around a 3 year old and a 1 and a half year old, sex is often the last thing on my mind.
Roleplaying is the only thing that seems to get us going these days. DH is a police officer and he will put on one of his (old) uniforms and I play the naughty knocked up speeder;)
It's amazing what a uniform and some cop talk can do to ignite flames in the bedroom after a day of cleaning up legos and changing diapers!
My fiance and I are both very busy people, as are most couples in the world. We work long hours and have responsibilities to deal with once home, not to mention having to fit in both gym and/or personal time. The way we try to keep the "flame burning" or even have a sex life at all is a collaboration of a few things: First is our "Couple" game nights that allow us to play against one other, which builds up a healthy,but steamy, competition that gets our blood flowing
Second is our "Chore" hour, we try to turn household mundane chores into exciting activities together. We race through them and whoever gets there tasks completed first gets top pick of positions or choice in what to do together, insert room for imagination 
Also we pull the ol' cheesy "have I met you before?" after meeting at an agreed restaurant, bar, hotel, you name it. There's just something about the rush of a "stranger" or the danger of being caught. We all have crazy lives, the most important thing i've found is to never skip on time together, compliments to one another, and the moment to just be. Whether that just means being alone or together.
I try to keep it fun, sexy, and fresh between us all the time. If we are relaxing in front of the TV, we take kissing/petting breaks during the commercials - emphasis on the later
. Sometimes I will also hide lingerie under my clothes for him to "discover"..just a little surprise for him that he wasn't expecting.
We also talk openly about thing that we want in bed and experiment with new "ideas". We also have a lot of fun taking showers together. I leave for work before he does, so occasionally I leave notes of encouragement or love notes around our apartment for him to find when he wakes up.
On a more deeper level, I feel more in-tune and connected with my man when we spend the whole day together doing something we both enjoy or going on a day trip.
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We have two Fantasy Boxes. We both write down fantasies we have on slips of paper, and put them in our boxes. When one of us wants to be spontaneous, we pull a slip out of the other person's box and make it our mission to fulfill that fantasy that day.