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Lurkers?

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  • I have literally gone back through my posts, and the only two things I can find were yesterday and one time when I called out CCH (that I truly don't regret at all).

    I am many things, but a bully isn't on the list.

    LL- do you recall how fucking rude you were to me the time I told you that you were 'lucky' to be able to have a few drinks at work?  Psycho rude.
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    edited April 2014

    I have literally gone back through my posts, and the only two things I can find were yesterday and one time when I called out CCH (that I truly don't regret at all).

    I am many things, but a bully isn't on the list.

    LL- do you recall how fucking rude you were to me the time I told you that you were 'lucky' to be able to have a few drinks at work?  Psycho rude.

    I do recall, it was over a year ago. I also recall feeling REALLY bad about it and apologizing for that one comment I made several times. Not that it's an excuse but I had also just learned I couldn't have biological kids and I was really messed up about it. So again, sorry. I'm also sorry you hung on to that one comment after we had been communicating for years.


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  • *Side post: I'm lurking in the lurker thread. :-)

    I'm still fairly new around here and am still "getting to know" everyone, but I try to contribute. Sometimes I'll just hit the "Love It" button, but even this thread makes me realize that while I shy away from conflict, I'm glad everything is getting out into the open. I'd rather everyone speak her mind then keep it all bottled up and then snap. Could just be me.
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  • Oh jeez. People voted for seahorse because she's hilarious and super active. Shit, I'd still vote for her to be mod.

    It's so weird that Bruins and Amanda would chime in with their support (/sarcasm).

    I don't think seahorse is a bully either. She has a strong personality, as do you... and there's nothing wrong with that.. but I don't see her as a bully. There have been a lot of harsh words spoken today by a lot of different people, and it makes me sad. Some may regret words that were spoken (today and in the past) and some may not regret anything, but I just feel like this is getting out of hand and there's never going to be a "winner" in this argument. It's just going to be a merry-go-round of insults. I know the world isn't puppies and rainbows, but it does make me sad to see women going at each other over who can and can't post on a message board.

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    lfk2013 said:
    *Side post: I'm lurking in the lurker thread. :-) I'm still fairly new around here and am still "getting to know" everyone, but I try to contribute. Sometimes I'll just hit the "Love It" button, but even this thread makes me realize that while I shy away from conflict, I'm glad everything is getting out into the open. I'd rather everyone speak her mind then keep it all bottled up and then snap. Could just be me.
    Ditto to all.

    But also I am awkward and bad at friends, so I'm sure that has something to do with it for me as well.
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  • I have literally gone back through my posts, and the only two things I can find were yesterday and one time when I called out CCH (that I truly don't regret at all).

    I am many things, but a bully isn't on the list.

    LL- do you recall how fucking rude you were to me the time I told you that you were 'lucky' to be able to have a few drinks at work?  Psycho rude.
    I do recall, it was over a year ago. I also recall feeling REALLY bad about it and apologizing for that one comment I made several times. Not that it's an excuse but I had also just learned I couldn't have biological kids and I was really messed up about it. So again, sorry. I'm also sorry you hung on to that one comment after we had been communicating for years.
    Sorry not sorry doesn't count really.  But that's okay., I don't have to like you, you don't have to like me.
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  • I think I'm going to leave it at this.  I like seahorse, and pretty much all of GP for that matter.  I don't agree with everything everyone posts when it comes to treating newbs' ignorance so harshly or coming down on a regular for something stupid.  I just won't jump in.  I do think I'm going to try to contribute to this board if I have something to say.

    This wasn't supposed to become all about bullying and having the same freakin conversation that happens over and over again.  Babies on GPM blah blah blah.     

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  • Oh this was a good read!!

    Granted I left the board but it wasn't because I didn't feel welcome. But for the longest time I had nothing to add and then the Nest made changes (and we all know how well that works out). Maybe sometime soon I will rejoin the conversation.

    Please do!! You are missed!!

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • Can this be the post that drives @amandaf6383 to join FB?
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    "I DO NOT love that you think so many things revolve around you.  I know you're bitter.  I get it.  But I'm over your feelings." The best person on the internet ever!


  • Oh this was a good read!!

    Granted I left the board but it wasn't because I didn't feel welcome. But for the longest time I had nothing to add and then the Nest made changes (and we all know how well that works out). Maybe sometime soon I will rejoin the conversation.


    Please do!! You are missed!!

    By who ;-)
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    edited April 2014
    Can this be the post that drives @amandaf6383 to join FB?
    What do you mean? I AM on FB!!

    ETA: But YOU'RE not! Right?

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • RockABye said:
    So. Back to the original topic at hand... are there any lurkers out there that would like to introduce themselves now?? ;)
    Ahahahaha. Don't be scared!

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • RockABye said:
    So. Back to the original topic at hand... are there any lurkers out there that would like to introduce themselves now?? ;)
    So do I need to do a re-intro post and everything? 
  • RockABye said:
    So. Back to the original topic at hand... are there any lurkers out there that would like to introduce themselves now?? ;)
    So do I need to do a re-intro post and everything? 

    ETA: I don't want to offend any Sensitive Sallys out there.


  • RockABye said:
    So. Back to the original topic at hand... are there any lurkers out there that would like to introduce themselves now?? ;)

    Hahahaha! I swear, we're all love, puppies, and rainbows.

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  • RockABye said:
    So. Back to the original topic at hand... are there any lurkers out there that would like to introduce themselves now?? ;)
    So do I need to do a re-intro post and everything? 

    ETA: I don't want to offend any Sensitive Sallys out there.


    No way.

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • Of course, today is the day I'm super busy at work and can't join in on this as often as I'd want. I would like to say though, that I don't care who posts here. As long as they are not an asshole. Bitter moments are one thing, but if you're an asshole, you deserve what you get. 

    I actually think I love everyone here. I'm not just spouting puppies and rainbows. But I really do. I can't think of anyone who hasn't really given me support and that I don't support wholeheartedly whether it be someone here TTA, TTC, 3Ting, graduated, or just plain awesome. (Okay, there is one person I would prefer to go away, but they're not a reg on GP or GPM, just an instigator)

    But the conflict of this post has been a great read.
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    12/29 hb 120. 1/5 perfect, GRAD DAY! 1/15 perfect at OB. NT 2/6 PERFECT, HB 158!

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  • RockABye said:
    So. Back to the original topic at hand... are there any lurkers out there that would like to introduce themselves now?? ;)
    So do I need to do a re-intro post and everything? 

    Yes @TheDeaton's. Intro or risk shunning. ;) And you can make your check for the monthly dues payable to me. Thanks.

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  • Can this be the post that drives @amandaf6383 to join FB?
    What do you mean? I AM on FB!!

    I can vouch! She's real and she's on there. And she's my frieeeeeeend. :)
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  • Can this be the post that drives @amandaf6383 to join FB?
    What do you mean? I AM on FB!!

    ETA: But YOU'RE not! Right?
    WHAT???!!!!???? 
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  • @amandaf6383 is actually a figment of all of out imaginations! I mean who honestly stands someone up for Poutine? ;-)
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  • RockABye said:
    RockABye said:
    So. Back to the original topic at hand... are there any lurkers out there that would like to introduce themselves now?? ;)
    So do I need to do a re-intro post and everything? 

    Yes @TheDeaton's. Intro or risk shunning. ;) And you can make your check for the monthly dues payable to me. Thanks.
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    RockABye said:

    So. Back to the original topic at hand... are there any lurkers out there that would like to introduce themselves now?? ;)

    So do I need to do a re-intro post and everything? 


    Excuse me. Who are you?
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