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Re: Three bored nesties
Oh you're good! I want to cut off contact, but I'm not opposed to sending one last email before I do. I already setup a rule in my email to send anything with his name to the trash, so I wouldn't even see a response.
On a side note about him, and something that you're more than welcome to add into the further scathing letter, should you so desire...he apparently c&p'd a former coworkers entire linkedin profile and dumped it in to his. She saw it today when he sent her a connection request, and emailed him and called him out about it. He can't even do THAT on his own! Not to metion the fact that I created he resume for him before. He's such a worthless pile of trash. I honestly don't know how he takes care of those kids. From what I hear, he just puts them in front of video games everyday as their babysitter.
What a waste. He's one of those people you want to make a webpage about and list all of the terrible truths about him, so that when people google him they get to see what a worthless pile of poo he truly is. I wish more people would do this, actually. it would make dating SO much easier.
I'll try to work on a more scathing letter. I wanted to include something about being in contact with your lawyer (C) and because you had to provide financial support for the basic needs of his poor spawn that somehow it could become subject to a CPS inquiry. Unfurtunately I know it doesn't work that way and frankly I want to just make him feel like the pathetic shhit that he is. He's obviously not going to pay you back without major coercion. I don't think that legally there is a lot that can be done (UGH) but C and i will discuss tonight. He knows about this latest development and said he feels terribly for you and sees that you are really in a bind.
I guess his email to you was in resonse to the detailed list you sent him of money owed? He seemed somewhat receptive to your first email. Guess when he saw what a mooch he was he got defensive.
I dated a guy who basically lived with me rent free...I paid for EVERYTHING...food, all of my apartment bills, his cell phone occassionally, his softball uniform for his club team, entrance fees for tournaments, food, clothes and entertainment for his kids, blah blah blah...all of it as "a loan". I'll never see that money again and he's not even worth my contact to try to get it. After we split I told him that I got tired of being taken advantage of by him. He told me it was MY FAULT I LET HIM take advantage of me!!! WTF?! He also tried to tell me what a horrible slut I was for starting to date C 5 months after I ended things with him. He said a lot of terrible stuff. I finally responded to him something about "had he gotten his warrants taken care of? Since he hasn't he needs to go worry about himself". He said "Actually I have". My response was "Oh really, because I have an HPD officer (my XH) and a lawyer (C) that say differently." Now, I haven't talked to my XH in over a year and certainly not about this DB, and I have never had C research him, but it shut him up. The unspoken message was "don't eff with me, loser". Haven't heard a peep from him since July. I wouldn't swerve if he walked in front of my car...in fact, my foot just might twitch and accelerate.
Maybe I should put stuff about him on those websites. I saw some people posting about them on SO or TIP at some point, so I know they do exist. I just hate how much he takes advantage of people. Unfortunately, it will never change I guess. He's a drunk and a mooch. The sad thing is, he's the "better" of the two parents. It's so, so very sad for those kids. It makes me sick. Absolutely sick. A mutual friend of ours thinks that he was drunk when he wrote that email (he didn't have the kids this weekend, though I'm not really sure that would stop him from being drunk at 11 am on a Sunday anyway).
Yay for saving money! The shower is March 31 if G wants to come down then
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I'll see if he can!
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Is his mom aware of his shady ways?
I'm not really sure. I don't think I would ask her for the money, but I think that she would happily give him a talking to about being so $hitty to me after what I did for him. She always said that I was his angel.
Whens he coming?! We should do a triple date
3/9-3/12. I was thinking about getting a group together to go to the rodeo that Saturday night. He's never been to a real rodeo like that, so I think he'd have a blast! Everyone needs to see a calf scramble and some mutton bustin before they die. Hehehe
That would be fun! C& I haven't been to the rodeo in years!
Confession - I just emailed the idiot back. I know better, but I had a moment of fury. I said: " So, basically, instead of saying that you disagree with that number, you're going to say that I never gave you any money, and never did anything to help you, and you owe me nothing?" I'm curious to see the response...
Im curious as well.
I'm guessing he won't respond, but I'll keep y'all posted!
Where've ya been? Everything OK?
I'm sorry you've been blah
Let me know if you want/need a date!!
And posting random nothings